Building Emotional Intelligence: A Guide for Men to Connect with Their Feelings

Emotional intelligence isn’t always something men are taught to value—let alone develop. For many of the men, the idea of tuning into feelings can feel foreign, uncomfortable, or even unnecessary at first. But here’s the truth: building emotional intelligence isn’t about becoming “too emotional”—it’s about becoming more aware, connected, and in control of what’s happening inside you.

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Online Therapy in Los Angeles: Does It Really Work?

In recent years—especially since the pandemic—one of the most common questions I hear from new clients is: “Does online therapy really work?” As a therapist practicing in the heart of Los Angeles, where schedules are packed and traffic is relentless, any skepticism is completely understandable. So let’s unpack this.

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Is ADHD Impacting Your Relationship? Key Signs and How to Cope

ADHD, or Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, doesn't just affect focus and organization—it can also have a deep and lasting impact on romantic relationships. If you or your partner has ADHD, you may have noticed patterns of miscommunication, emotional disconnect, or recurring conflict that seem hard to break.

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The Power of Community: Creating Connections That Matter

As a practice, we place a high value on meaningful and authentic relationships. Over the years, this effort has naturally evolved into finding and creating spaces for genuine community. These efforts extend into all kinds of relationships, including inter-professional networks, local neighborhood collaborations, training and workshop offerings, low-fee/easy-entry therapeutic offerings…

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Signs, Symptoms, and Management of High-Functioning Anxiety

While it might not be a clinically recognized diagnosis, high-functioning anxiety is a term that resonates deeply with those who feel its unique challenges. Understanding what it means and how it differs from more typical experiences of anxiety can provide valuable insights for those navigating it and those seeking to support loved ones.

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Body Neutrality During the Holidays: Tips for Staying Balanced and Confident

The holidays can be a wonderful time of connection, celebration, and reflection, but they can also be challenging for many of us when it comes to our relationships with our bodies. Amid festive meals, well-meaning but unsolicited comments, and the pressures of New Year’s resolutions, staying grounded in body neutrality can feel like a tall order. But it is possible. Here’s how you can navigate this season with compassion, curiosity, and a focus on what truly matters.

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Signs It’s Time to Start Couples Therapy: How to Know When to Seek Help

At Spaces, we’ve worked with couples across cultures, stages, and struggles and the decision to seek therapy often represents both a risk and an act of courage. Therapy is not simply a place to “fix” what feels broken—it’s a place to understand, to reveal, to question, and, sometimes, to redefine. So, how do you know when it’s time?

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Healers Hang, Fall 2024

Healers Hang, Fall 2024 Gallery - Bringing our healing community together for our semi-annual mixer. If you're a healing professional and you aren't currently on our invite list, please join our list, linked in the post.

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Understanding Grief: How Therapy Can Help You Navigate Loss

Our culture tends to compartmentalize grief, to privatize and pathologize it, to render it something to be overcome or dismissed. In the West, we regard grief as something to “get over” as though it’s a temporary malady we should quickly recover from. Yet grief is not a single event but an abiding relationship.

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How do you know you and your therapist are a good fit?

Choosing a therapist is a deeply personal journey, and finding the right match can be crucial to the success of your therapy experience. A good therapeutic relationship isn’t just scheduling sessions—it’s about building a trusting, comfortable, and productive partnership.

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What is grounding in therapy? 3 techniques to reduce anxiety and distress

Grounding is a part of mindfulness in which you are directing your thoughts away from distressing thoughts/experiences and guiding it toward the present. This can be particularly helpful when feeling overwhelmed by certain thoughts or emotions. Grounding techniques are designed to help individuals dealing with trauma, panic attacks, or other intense emotional experiences.

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Courtesy Billing / Why We Don’t Accept Insurance Payments

As a practice, our values are to create a therapeutic environment that balances sustainability, inclusivity, and empowerment. As a result, our practice has made the conscious decision to not directly accept it. Our main reasons for this include maintaining therapist sustainability, protecting client privacy and agency, and preserving clinical autonomy.

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